Girl talk

[ivybeenz]

This thread is for all the girlies to come and chat about girlie things like shopping, guys and periods!!!! Guys, enter at your own risk :D:D

[Shelly]

yay, a girl thread! :) I love girl talk! I don't really have much to say right now though.. but periods suck! I'm sure people will agree with me on that.

[ivybeenz]

Yes, I do agree!!! He he
Here is a question - how much make-up do you wear?
I usually only wear vaseline for my lips, maybe foundation. I am crap with eye make-up so I don't even bother :p

[Shelly]

oh I rarely wear make up.. when I do, I wear mascara, a little foundation..and lip balm :) ..I'm not very good at it either. Okay, I have a question.. do you have a boyfriend? or have you ever had a boyfriend? I don't have a boyfriend..and I never did. but I did date a couple times. I don't even think I want a boyfriend right now :p and it doesn't help that I'm shy.

[ivybeenz]

I haven't ever and I don't care. I go to school with all girls so the only boys I ever talk to are my brothers and I'm not that desperate lol I'm really shy too..I hate talking to new people, whatever gender

[Shelly]

yeah me too, and I hate being so shy it sucks.. yeah I don't want a boyfriend either, I'm still young.. :p

[ivybeenz]

How old are you btw? I'm 14 :)

[Shelly]

Oh, I'm 16 :)

[ivybeenz]

Cool :p(I was too lazy to search for more)
What style do you think you have?? Like punk, etc

[Shelly]

lol .. my style? It's kind of like a lot of everything you know? I don't really like putting myself intoo a certain cadegy.. I don't know, I wear whatever I like. But I don't do skirts, dresses or shorts lol. :p what about you?

[ivybeenz]

I don't know. I try to be crazy, but I usually end up wearing the normal jeans, vest and pumps combo. I used to wear a lot more skirts but I'm more tomboyish now. I want to be a mod! :p

[Shelly]

Yeah I'm too insecure to wear skirts and shorts and stuff like that :p I wear whatever I'm comfy in.. which is just usually jeans and a tshirt. You want to be mod? That's cool, I wish I could.. but I don't look like one lol

[ivybeenz]

He he well I'll have my hair relaxed soon, just need more volume, Then My new drainpipes he he I'm basing it on Vince from the mighty boosh (Crazy british show) I'll just end up looking like an emo :pWhich I don't mind actually.
My fashion mood changes very often. Sometimes I like dressing girly But I never wear mini-skirts

[Shelly]

My hair is so long, I think I need a haircut It's very annoying! What colour is your hair? Mine is brown, I'm ater having blonde and some red in it, but I didn't like it :p I don't like dressing all girly like. I never will wear mini skirts, I actually have some .. waste of money I tell ya! lol.. I will never wear them :p I like being comfy in my clothes..and if I wear them I know I won't be. So jeans and tshirts is all I wear.. boring much? lol.

[ivybeenz]

I basically live in my baggy(ish) jeans...I love 'em. I don't like wearing skirts becasue I can never be bothered to shave my legs lol :p
My hair is dark brown but I want to dye it bluey black

[Shelly]

my hair is kind of a dark brown too. Bluey back.. I love that! It looks cool :D
Yeah, baggyish jeans are comfy! :p I hate shaving my legs .. haha, and I hate showing off my legs anyways lol. I don't want to wear shorts when the Summer comes.. I hate them! And I doubt I will go swimming, way to insecure to wear a bathing suit.

[ivybeenz]

Luckily we haven't done swimming at school for ages. But in year 7 and 8 we had to do dance in the gym in just leotards like we were 3 year olds. So glad those days are over :)

[Shelly]

wow that must've sucked eek.. lol

[ivybeenz]

Yep and this pervy teacher (well,we think he's a perv:o) always walked through the lesson. And the teacher would be wearing like 100 layers Grrr We weren't even allowed to wear a shirt or skirt over the top :rolleyez: I feel sorry for the current year 7's
Another day I hate is photo day!!!

[Shelly]

I wouldn't be able to wear that..eek, that's horrible! lol.. yeah photo day sucks.. i'm not really photogenic.

[ivybeenz]

I think I look even worse in photo's that I do in real life. I always look drunk :D

[Shelly]

haha yeah I do look worse in photos too.. :p I hate getting my picture took!

[ivybeenz]

I hate it just before a photo is taken, and you don't want to pose but you don't wan't to look miserable :p

[Peter Brichs]

but periods suck! I'm sure people will agree with me on that.

Now, I'm a boy, so this thread isn't really for me, but... I just have to agree with this statement.

*looks over shoulder, getting ready to run away if attacked*

[redneck once removed]

Oh, we know you're cool.
Especially if you're saying we're right about something. :D

[OMG its LFG]

im a girl and i dont get my period. how good is that!

[redneck once removed]

Ok, either
A) you're pregnant
B) you've been through menopause
C) you're on birth control
D)you've had your tubes tied
E) you're a guy who became a woman through a sex change
so, am I close?

[OMG its LFG]

Ok, either
A) you're pregnant
B) you've been through menopause
C) you're on birth control
D)you've had your tubes tied
E) you're a guy who became a woman through a sex change
so, am I close?


LOL, i was on the "shot" but i went off and they said it could take up to a year to get it regularly...and i havent yet. HA!

[EGlVM]

Ok, either
A) you're pregnant
B) you've been through menopause
C) you're on birth control
D)you've had your tubes tied
E) you're a guy who became a woman through a sex change
so, am I close?
Or she hasn't even had a period yet.

Anyway, I gotta get caught up.
I'm 14. I live in the middle of nowhere in BC Canada. I home school by choice and don't want a boyfriend anytime soon. haha glad I'm not the only one.
I like wearing jeans and tshirts or sweats. And my hair colour is dark brown but I like to colour it a purple (Loreal Colour Pulse Cool Plum :))
And, funny story about periods, I got my first one on a cruise ship. haha

[wickedsweet]

Ok, either
A) you're pregnant
B) you've been through menopause
C) you're on birth control
D)you've had your tubes tied
E) you're a guy who became a woman through a sex change
so, am I close?

You forgot:
Nursing
very low body weight
stress
several medical conditions

That's all I can think to add.

[OMG its LFG]

LOL those are all good guesses, but I answered it....But we can still compile a list of reasons that i might not have it...

Im 24 from Boston MA area, and I am bored

ETA: thanks bekka!!!!

[Bekka]

14? I thought you were 24. Typo?

[YouFirst]

*Peeks in this thread. Faints*

[IwannaBlost]

*Peeks in this thread. Faints*

:rotfl:

YF you crack me up!!

[Shar]

*Peeks in this thread. Faints*

LMAO!!!

[YouFirst]

:rotfl:

YF you crack me up!!

Thank you. :)

*Picks himself up*

I'll leave you gals to carry on discussing, uh, the things girls discuss...

[/threadjack]

[redneck once removed]

:wave2:

[IwannaBlost]

Hey there ROR. How is your day going?

[Shelly]

Hello girls.... and guys? lol!

[OMG its LFG]

Hey, we arent that bad in here, until I started talking about my non-period

[ivybeenz]

I always thought you were a guy LostforGood, cause I always saw you in the hottest girls thread. Not that I can talk :D
What does everyone here think is their best physical and mental feature?

[Lost In His Eyes]

Aw, man! Too bad LAL doesn't come around anymore! We won't need to hijack the thinking thread to have our girl talks!

*Peeks in this thread. Faints*


lmao Frisk, that'll teach ya!

My best physical feature? My eyes! I love my eyes! They're green with a ring of brown around my pupil. I love 'em! And mental? Yikes... my sense of humor. Does that count? I have a great sense of humor! :D

[ivybeenz]

I would say my best physical feature is my lips, as they are full. Mental, err, I'm good at cheering people up and I think I'm kinda witty :confused:

[OMG its LFG]

I always thought you were a guy LostforGood, cause I always saw you in the hottest girls thread. Not that I can talk :D
What does everyone here think is their best physical and mental feature?


nah, i'm a straight girl, i just like to look at girls, and talk nonsense...and i dont know what my best feature is...people say my eyes,

[IwannaBlost]

I guess the "eyes" have it. Mine are bluish-green (or greenish blue) many people think they are colored contacts because they are so different.

[ivybeenz]

I hate my eyes :(

[OMG its LFG]

I hate my eyes :(


why? whats wrong with them?

(boobs boobs boobs)

[ivybeenz]

Did I hear someone say 'boobs'? Didn't think so :D

I hate my eyes because they're not big enough and the colur green is a bit...dull

[OMG its LFG]

green is a nice color. mine are blue...dark blue...

(boobs boobs boobs)

[Jason and the ARGonauts]

Mommy, how can a girl have gramatical punctuation coming out of her?

[Jason and the ARGonauts]

Two days later...somebody gets the joke

[EGlVM]

I would say my best physical feature is my lips
Mine too.

Now let's go with worst physical feature!
Nose for me.

[DohBoy]

Wow. Curiosity pulled me into this thread, and now I regret it. It's like spying on your sister's slumber party - too much chatting on non-interesting girly stuff, and not enough pillow fights in skimpy pajamas.

I shall never revisit this thread again.


And one last thing, you all look beautiful to me - not a bad feature amongst you! :)

[ivybeenz]

Worst feature? We'll be here for days. Ultimate worse though are hair (do I hear Frizz?) and my nose (more like snout :p)

[redneck once removed]

my worst feature has got to be stretchmarks from having my son. :cry: I'm told they'll never go away!:(

[Shai]

Wow. Curiosity pulled me into this thread, and now I regret it. It's like spying on your sister's slumber party - too much chatting on non-interesting girly stuff, and not enough pillow fights in skimpy pajamas.

I shall never revisit this thread again.



Hell... I'm female but coming into this thread I feel like the old lady on the bus tutting at the youngsters. It's like its 10 years ago.

But since I'm here... my best features IMO are my eyes and my lips.

[ivybeenz]

I love your banner Shai :D

[IwannaBlost]

Hell... I'm female but coming into this thread I feel like the old lady on the bus tutting at the youngsters. It's like its 10 years ago.

But since I'm here... my best features IMO are my eyes and my lips.

If you are the old lady tutting from the bus..the I am the ancient lady sitting in a rocker on the porch who can't even see the bus. I was born in the early sixties.

[ivybeenz]

I'm a baby then :)

[merry slug]

my worst feature has got to be stretchmarks from having my son. :cry: I'm told they'll never go away!:(

Wear them proudly!

Okay 2 vents:

1) Why does my period have to come at the most inopportune time???? I can't remember the last vacation I had where it didn't play a part!

2) Why do guys make stupid jokes like "Don't trust anything that bleeds for 7 days and live" when it's not like we have a choice about it!!!

/end venting.

[ivybeenz]

Does anyone get bad stomach cramps around their period. Mine seriously kill for a few days - I can hardly walk :(

[merry slug]

I've only very rarely had bad cramping (* knocks on wood *). I get naseous. I'll trade.

[Shai]

I love your banner Shai :D

Thanks :D I felt inspired Sunday night...

More girl things:

I hate that some guys still talk to me like I'm stupid just because I have ovaries. I have opinions, and they are well thought out godammit!

[merry slug]

I gotta second your banner, Shai, but I have one compliant - "Grumpy" should be Michael ;)

[ivybeenz]

What do you think is the worst thing about being a female. I guess having a baby must be pretty painful :o

[merry slug]

If it makes any of our younger posters feel better, my period has only gotten eaiser with age.

[Shai]

I gotta second your banner, Shai, but I have one compliant - "Grumpy" should be Michael ;)

I hadn't thought... I might try it with him :D

[merry slug]

What do you think is the worst thing about being a female. I guess having a baby must be pretty painful :o

Either:
1) everything's blamed on PMS, or
2) Men age better, or
3) a powerful woman is percieved as a b!tch.

Seriously, I get that Hillary Clinton is much maligned, and I've laughed about it too, and yet I can't put my finger on one single reason why. Her husband cheated on her -- in theory everyone should be supporting her(???)

[redneck once removed]

Either:
1) everything's blamed on PMS, or
2) Men age better, or
3) a powerful woman is percieved as a b!tch.

Seriously, I get that Hillary Clinton is much maligned, and I've laughed about it too, and yet I can't put my finger on one single reason why. Her husband cheated on her -- in theory everyone should be supporting her(???)


^^Agree on all counts.


I just think being a woman is gross, you're always leaking something outta somewhere.

[ivybeenz]

Sometimes I'd like to be a Guy.....:rolleyez:They have it sooo easy

[merry slug]

They can pee standing up. I'm out on a boat with one all day, and he pees like 6 times over the side. I can pee over the side if desperate, but it's such an undertaking, I end up holding it 90% of the time. :rolleyez:

[IwannaBlost]

Guys have the life.

[OMG its LFG]

no, anyone who is not me has the life.

[redneck once removed]

Guys have the life.



It's funny you say that, I got this in my E-mail today...

ISN'T THIS THE TRUTH!!!!!!
>
> Men Are Just Happier People--
>
> What do you expect from such simple creatures? Your last name stays put.
> The garage is all yours. Wedding plans take care of themselves.
> Chocolate is
> just another snack. You can be President.
>
> You can never be pregnant. You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park.
> You can wear NO shirt to a water park. Car mechanics tell you the truth.
> The world is your urinal. You never have to drive to another gas station
> restroom because this one is just too icky.
>
> You don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt.
> Same
> work, more pay. Wrinkles add character. Wedding dress $5000. Tux
> rental-$100
>
>
> People never stare at your chest when you're talking to them. The
> occasional well-rendered belch is practically expected. New shoes don't
> cut, blister, or mangle your feet. One mood all the time.
>
> Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat. You know stuff about
> tanks.
> A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase. You can open all your
> own
> jars. You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness. If
> someone forgets to invite you, he or she can still be your friend.
>
> Your underwear is $8.95 for a three-pack. Three pairs of shoes are more
> than enough. You almost never have strap problems in public. You are
> unable to
> see wrinkles in your clothes. Everything on your face stays its original
> color. The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades. You only have
> to
> shave your face and neck.
> You can play with toys all your life. Your belly usually hides your big
> hips.
> One wallet and one pair of shoes one color for all seasons.
>
> You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look. You can "do" your
> nails
> with a pocket knife. You have freedom of choice concerning growing a
> mustache..
>
> You can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25
> minutes.
>
>
> No wonder men are happier.
>
ISN'T THIS THE TRUTH!!!!!!
>
> Men Are Just Happier People--
>
> What do you expect from such simple creatures? Your last name stays put.
> The garage is all yours. Wedding plans take care of themselves.
> Chocolate is
> just another snack. You can be President.
>
> You can never be pregnant. You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park.
> You can wear NO shirt to a water park. Car mechanics tell you the truth.
> The world is your urinal. You never have to drive to another gas station
> restroom because this one is just too icky.
>
> You don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt.
> Same
> work, more pay. Wrinkles add character. Wedding dress $5000. Tux
> rental-$100
>
>
> People never stare at your chest when you're talking to them. The
> occasional well-rendered belch is practically expected. New shoes don't
> cut, blister, or mangle your feet. One mood all the time.
>
> Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat. You know stuff about
> tanks.
> A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase. You can open all your
> own
> jars. You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness. If
> someone forgets to invite you, he or she can still be your friend.
>
> Your underwear is $8.95 for a three-pack. Three pairs of shoes are more
> than enough. You almost never have strap problems in public. You are
> unable to
> see wrinkles in your clothes. Everything on your face stays its original
> color. The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades. You only have
> to
> shave your face and neck.
> You can play with toys all your life. Your belly usually hides your big
> hips.
> One wallet and one pair of shoes one color for all seasons.
>
> You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look. You can "do" your
> nails
> with a pocket knife. You have freedom of choice concerning growing a
> mustache..
>
> You can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25
> minutes.
>
>
> No wonder men are happier.
>

:rotfl: :D

[sunnyskies]

I emailed that list to my father in law and he replied

git er done.

He knows it is easier to be a guy and is happy about it.

Does anyone get those wispy curls on the sides of your face from your hair being frizzy?

[SareEru]

What do you think is the worst thing about being a female. I guess having a baby must be pretty painful :o I've just got to say that it is worth it! The first second you see your baby....AWESOME!!! Both times were great for me, even with complications, I'd go through it again in a heartbeat... (Assuming I had enough energy to care for more than two kids!)

[Lost In His Eyes]

I love girl talk! And that thing is hilarious! Guys do have it easy! Jerks... ;)

[OMG its LFG]

Does anyone get those wispy curls on the sides of your face from your hair being frizzy?

only when it rains, or if i let my hair dry without brushing it

git er done

[SareEru]

Frizz defines my hairstyle... I hate it...

[Lost In His Eyes]

My hair doesn't really get frizzy, it gets poofy and wavy when it rains.

[OMG its LFG]

oh yeah, and when i have hot girl on girl action

[redneck once removed]

ok then
TMI for me

[merry slug]

oh yeah, and when i have hot girl on girl action

ILLB might actually come into this thread just to hear that ;)

[ILikeLostBrunettes]

I was here all along... *fades back into the shadows*

[Alibrastar]

ILLB...were you hoping for some gossip? What are you doing here?

[SareEru]

He's waiting for the girl-crush talk to turn into something more...

[ILikeLostBrunettes]

Lingerie Pillow fights and oil wrestling...

[OMG its LFG]

ILLB might actually come into this thread just to hear that ;)


lol thats why i said it..

[Alibrastar]

Too funny-he's such a hound!!!!!!!!! It cracks me up though, that he's such a pervert. In the cluck thread he always says something sexual-he's so crazy!

[OMG its LFG]

Too funny-he's such a hound!!!!!!!!! It cracks me up though, that he's such a pervert. In the cluck thread he always says something sexual-he's so crazy!


LOL i think hes funny... we get along good...i like to egg him on...

[SareEru]

Lingerie Pillow fights and oil wrestling...**looks for the baby oil**

[OMG its LFG]

**looks for the baby oil**


ILLB's not here now...its not as fun.

[SareEru]

Yeah, but he can always catch up later!

[Alibrastar]

**looks for the baby oil**


I've got it here Sare...

[SareEru]

** borrows the baby oil from AL and begins to apply it **

[SareEru]

** to the callouses on her feet **

HAHA! Tricked you all!

[Jamie McFly]

Hey I want to come talk about random nothingness! I've hardly even looked at this area...

[ILikeLostBrunettes]

Feet? Apply oil to somewhere else...

[OMG its LFG]

Feet? Apply oil to somewhere else...


even i think that is gross

[SareEru]

ILLB, I must remain PG-13...

[OMG its LFG]

there are more things that you can say that are PG 13 are dont involve gross feet.

[EGlVM]

2) Why do guys make stupid jokes like "Don't trust anything that bleeds for 7 days and live" when it's not like we have a choice about it!!!
OK, whatever guy said that to you and claimed that it was his own joke is a moron.
That joke is in "South Park: Bigger, Longer, and Uncut" and it's funny there but if a guy just comes out and says that to you, he is a moron and needs to be bitch slapped.:catfight:

[merry slug]

OK, whatever guy said that to you and claimed that it was his own joke is a moron.
That joke is in "South Park: Bigger, Longer, and Uncut" and it's funny there but if a guy just comes out and says that to you, he is a moron and needs to be bitch slapped.:catfight:

Oh I've heard the joke before - even laughed half-heartedly. It just frustrates me when they act like we *choose* to go through this crap on a monthly basis :irked:

[sunnyskies]

I have my feather pillow out tonight - anyone up for a slumber party?

[OMG its LFG]

I have my feather pillow out tonight - anyone up for a slumber party?


surrre... as soon as i go to the gym.

[sunnyskies]

Lost for Good I knew I could count on you! Don't forget to bring your favorite music.

[OMG its LFG]

Lost for Good I knew I could count on you! Don't forget to bring your favorite music.

im all about it!!!

they better have lost on at the gym.

[sunnyskies]

I hope they do... if not I have the first season on dvd - you can borrow it! :)
I work out at a place called Curves. It's just for women and it's a lot of fun

[EGlVM]

Oh I've heard the joke before - even laughed half-heartedly. It just frustrates me when they act like we *choose* to go through this crap on a monthly basis :irked:
Ah, I see. Yeah, gotta agree with you there.

[redneck once removed]

Ah, I see. Yeah, gotta agree with you there.

:yeah:


sunnyskies, am I too late? I brought brownies:D or are y'all passed out already?

[sunnyskies]

ror- sorry we missed you we were out streaking the neighborhood. ;)

[Alibrastar]

Ooooo, brownies!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks!

[redneck once removed]

ror- sorry we missed you we were out streaking the neighborhood. ;)


:rotfl: Now that's something I've never done and probly will never have the nerve to!

[Lost In His Eyes]

Brownies!? Can you say chocolate craving!?

[redneck once removed]

yeah, well, my 'friend' just showed up today. lol


What chica doesn't like chocolate anyway? :D

[Alibrastar]

Question: How the hell did it start being called "friend"? It's no friend of mine!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My friend left on 2/13...and she can stay away for all I care!!!!!!!!!!!!

[PandoraX]

You know, girltalk very frequently attracts guys though... damn voyeurs :)

[Lost In His Eyes]

My friend will be leaving in a day or two. But I'm still craving chocolate. I even made chocolate cake, it got so bad!

But yeah, any guy that comes into this thread and is 'grossed' out by anything... IT'S YOUR OWN FAULT! It clearly says 'Girl Talk'. What do you think could come up? :D

[redneck once removed]

But yeah, any guy that comes into this thread and is 'grossed' out by anything... IT'S YOUR OWN FAULT! It clearly says 'Girl Talk'. What do you think could come up? :D


Exactly!

Funny thing is, this 'friend' gives me more warning before showing up than my real friends, LOL.
I will say though,
before it used to kill me, but since having a kid, it's dropped down to a minor annoyance. Compared to labor, cramps aren't even noticable. Also, it used to take 6 days, now it's down to 2&a half! yay!

[Lost In His Eyes]

I get cramps only on the first day... and they are killer! And my friend only stays for 3 to 4 days tops, so it's not that bad.

[Alibrastar]

Well, I'm on the pill, so it's only a 3 day gig for me, but still it's a pain in the a$$!

[EGlVM]

I don't think I'll ever go on the pill. Taking a drug to basically stop your period just doesn't seem natural or healthy to me.

If I do get cramps, it's either the first day or the day before it starts. I've had some doozies.

[PandoraX]

EGIVM: A lot of women feel that way, you're not alone. But I can say as a medical doctor that there is no supported evidence in the medical literature that this is harmful to your body to skip the placebo pills (in the past, there was a fear this increased your risk of endometrial cancer, but this was proven false). And as a woman, I had been on depo-provera for 2 years ("the shot", and it stops your period altogether in most cases after a few months... the only reason I stopped was because it also caused me to break out, I liked it otherwise. I then went back on the pill and continued to throw out the week of placebos. This is ok if (if you feel ok about it).

[EGlVM]

Wow, that was a well educated answer. haha

Thanks for the advice (for when I need it)

[OMG its LFG]

EGIVM: A lot of women feel that way, you're not alone. But I can say as a medical doctor that there is no supported evidence in the medical literature that this is harmful to your body to skip the placebo pills (in the past, there was a fear this increased your risk of endometrial cancer, but this was proven false). And as a woman, I had been on depo-provera for 2 years ("the shot", and it stops your period altogether in most cases after a few months... the only reason I stopped was because it also caused me to break out, I liked it otherwise. I then went back on the pill and continued to throw out the week of placebos. This is ok if (if you feel ok about it).


pandoraX I was on the shot for over two years, but I stopped because of the whole bone density thing. My friend's sister was on it for 6 years and she had abnormal bone density. I didnt want to end up with a broken hip at age 26, so i stopped it... i dont take anything now....and i still dont get a period yet.

[Lost In His Eyes]

I don't think that I would ever go on the pill or shot. My 'friend' isn't all that bad. I know girls who get severe cramps everyday of their period. And their's are alot longer than mine is. 3 to 4 days isn't bad at all compared to 7 or 8 days! That would just SUCK!

[PandoraX]

Sure thing :) It's not my current specialty, but I've had to study gynecology and work on the gynecology wards as a med student/intern, so if anyone has general questions...

Just want to make women well informed of their birth control choices (for when they do need it). Everyone just thinks of the pill and condoms, but there are many other choices today (the patch, the NuvaRing) and some of it is finding the choice that's right for you and makes you and your partner feel comfortable.

Here's a good page with facts you can trust:
http://www.4woman.gov/faq/birthcont.htm

LostforGood, the bone density risk is one of the drawbacks of depo, and a good reason to discontinue if you have a history of problems. As for not getting your period back yet... I wouldn't worry about it if it's been less than a year since the discontinuance. It takes a while for some women if they've been on depo for some time; it took me about 2 months.

Oh, and start taking calcium when you are young!!! Building it now can severely reduce your risks of osteoporosis when your older (and looking like one of those hunchback little old ladies that breaks her hip every other day :))

[OMG its LFG]

LostforGood, the bone density risk is one of the drawbacks of depo, and a good reason to discontinue if you have a history of problems. As for not getting your period back yet... I wouldn't worry about it if it's been less than a year since the discontinuance. It takes a while for some women if they've been on depo for some time; it took me about 2 months.

oh, im not worried, i hope it never comes back!!!! I think its more fun this way!!!! I didnt have a history of problems, I just didnt want to risk if for something like the shot. I enjoyed not getting a period, but i broke out too and i use to get moody in the last month before my shot.

[PandoraX]

oh, im not worried, i hope it never comes back!!!! I think its more fun this way!!!! I didnt have a history of problems, I just didnt want to risk if for something like the shot. I enjoyed not getting a period, but i broke out too and i use to get moody in the last month before my shot.

I agree, I hate my period. I am one of those women who gets it all 7 days (or 8 or 9), and for the first 2 days, I am in a lot of pain.

and LostforGood, I think the official ACOG (Am College of OB/GYN) recommendation is now for not recommending more than 2 years of depo at a time, I should have mentioned that. I don't think it was when I was on it.

[OMG its LFG]

I agree, I hate my period. I am one of those women who gets it all 7 days (or 8 or 9), and for the first 2 days, I am in a lot of pain.

and LostforGood, I think the official ACOG (Am College of OB/GYN) recommendation is now for not recommending more than 2 years of depo at a time, I should have mentioned that. I don't think it was when I was on it.


depo is a pain anyway...i gained weight on it...but now its coming off.

[Alibrastar]

My gosh, you poor girls! I just went in for my annual (2/20/06) and we had talked about that ring---can't figure how the guy wouldn't feel that thing, and also the pills and shots and that IUD thing, that just looks like some kind of medievel torture device and the lovely diaphram. I picked the pill, I hate shots and won't do those sticks in my arm and the diaphram is just nasty. But now that I'm 35 (didn't tell her I smoked) she has me on some different kind than I'm used to and I won't start taking them until March-hope they do me right. Good luck to you girls...LFG, I'm worried for you---no periods? Scary!

[OMG its LFG]

...LFG, I'm worried for you---no periods? Scary!

Its okay, its expected for right now...im hoping it wont come until after the summer....

[PandoraX]

we had talked about that ring---can't figure how the guy wouldn't feel that thing,

Studies show that 8/10 men cannot feel it, because it is supposed to get pushed up to the roof of that area, near the cervix.

that IUD thing, that just looks like some kind of medievel torture device...

It looks bad, and is not for me personally, I don't like the idea of a foreign semi permanent object in me. But there are many women who like this method and say that they never feel anything at all; it is considered a highly effective method, but you have to make sure you are honest with your doctor about your sexual history with this one.

Lost- the weight gain was another reason I did not like depo, you're right. I have a very stable metabolism, haven't gained or lost more than 5 lbs since high school... but when I was on depo, I gained about 8 lbs, which was a lot for me.

[Alibrastar]

I appreciate the info Pand...my doctor also said men wouldn't feel the ring, I said "Okay" and laughed. I'm sure it really works, but I just can't see how. Anyway...LFG, you crack me up, hoping it'll come after the summer-I also hate having my periods in the summer...worried about white, worried about swimming-gosh, everything!!!! Well, I really hope you are okay. :awwhug:

[redneck once removed]

I hate cramps!

[OMG its LFG]

I appreciate the info Pand...my doctor also said men wouldn't feel the ring, I said "Okay" and laughed. I'm sure it really works, but I just can't see how. Anyway...LFG, you crack me up, hoping it'll come after the summer-I also hate having my periods in the summer...worried about white, worried about swimming-gosh, everything!!!! Well, I really hope you are okay. :awwhug:


I know!! plus i was thinking of joining the marines, and there is no way im doign that and having a period!!!!!!

[PandoraX]

I did not go through boot camp, but I went through officer basic training for the army (which is nothing compared to marines boot camp in how strenuous the physical work is, but you do still spend 2 weeks out in the field doing FTX training, with no bathrooms most of the time--the best you could hope for was a latrine like a port-o-potty at the end of a 15 hour day with 20 lbs of equipment to take off, since you have to wear your uniform at all times day and night outside your tent). Many of us women intentionally used birth control methods that would suppress their periods during this time. One of us had recently given birth and had to use a breast pump out in the field every day, which was absolutely horrible for her! Another girl was 7 months pregnant during the time and still did a lot of the training with us, including a 10 mile land nav course in pouring rain.

[OMG its LFG]

i think when i go to the marines, i will just go back on the shot or something...i dont want kids, so i wish i could just get rid of it for good.

[PandoraX]

i think when i go to the marines, i will just go back on the shot or something...i dont want kids, so i wish i could just get rid of it for good.

Well, if you were 100% sure, that's what a tubal ligation ("getting your tubes tied") is for. The problem is, you're young, and trust me, you are not 100% sure, because "for good" is a long, long time. :) I used to think when I was in my teens I never wanted kids, and when I was in my mid-20s, I still wasn't big on kids, but more on the fence. Now, I'm not super-eager to start pumping out puppies, but I would consider it under the right circumstances (especially if I was with a guy who really wanted them).

[sunnyskies]

Well, to add my 2 cents I do use the nuvoring and he does feel it but he says it's no big deal. Better than another child right now. Any questions about using it PM me. It's an interesting choice. :)

[Alibrastar]

Well, to add my 2 cents I do use the nuvoring and he does feel it but he says it's no big deal. :)

See!!!! I knew it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PS-I had no idea about the boot camp thing-GAD! How horrid! How is any of that even sanitary? Hmm.

[redneck once removed]

I just don't see how it works... I get how to use it, what you do with it, It just doesnt seem like it would be effective, but hey, whatever works.
I'm afraid to use anykind cause I smoke.

[Alibrastar]

Red...I lied to my doc. I told her I wasn't smoking. But, don't you do that!

[PandoraX]

sunnyskie's guy is probably one of those lucky 20%... Call him, a sensitive man .. hehe :D

allibaster.... I don't think they have a huge concern over sanitary when you're crawling under razor wire in the mud with pouring rain... hehe. I mean, not dollhouse tea for two sanitary ;) The point is more to harden you & teach you battle skills, with only a slight emphasis on preventative medicine. And again the marines & special forces training get it much worse... more power to them...

redneck, it's a hormonal method also, so many of the same contraindications apply. The stuff inside a nuvaring is much like what's in an OBCP, only it is absorbed transdermally instead of orally.

Hey and don't be lying to your doc! ;) Increased rate of stroke in high risk patients... it's low but it's there, and better safe than sorry. You may need to check out some nonhormonal methods just to be on the safe side.

[Alibrastar]

Sorry Pand...I just didn't want to sit and be lectured. I know, I'm a bad girl...I think they have low estrogen, I think...like I said, I'll start them in March and then in April I go back for a check up. I'll read up on them this weekend-I just got them a couple of days ago and threw them in my basket in the bathroom.

I really appreciate all this info-thanks again. You're a Sweetheart! :awwhug:

[redneck once removed]

Well, that's why we go with the old standbys, condoms & abstinence.
Same old familiars but it works.

[PandoraX]

No prob Alibaster! And not all docs lecture :) Some of it is just to help you make the right health choices for yourself (in a nonjudgemental way).

[Peter Brichs]

I wonder...what is it that makes us guys so stupid? I mean, I know that a girltalk-thread WON'T be about hot stuff, but probably it'll contain a lot of talk about periods and so on, and so forth. But still, I've read through 15 pages of .. yeah, you've read the thread.

It's like putting a big ol' "DO NOT PRESS!!" sign over the button you're not supposed to press. You're gonna do it at some point.

Oh well, I'll leave you girls to it. Cheers

[PandoraX]

I wonder...what is it that makes us guys so stupid? I mean, I know that a girltalk-thread WON'T be about hot stuff, but probably it'll contain a lot of talk about periods and so on, and so forth. But still, I've read through 15 pages of .. yeah, you've read the thread.

It's like putting a big ol' "DO NOT PRESS!!" sign over the button you're not supposed to press. You're gonna do it at some point.

Oh well, I'll leave you girls to it. Cheers

OMG, WHAT DID I TELL YA RED NECK... can I predict em or what??? :rotfl:

[OMG its LFG]

boobs bras panties hot girl on girl action

how was that?

[PandoraX]

He's looking for us in this:
http://phoenix.swarthmore.edu/2005-03-17/img/14787-1-f-auto.jpg

Men are visual creatures.

[redneck once removed]

That's nice :rolleyes:
Let em make THEIR OWN GuyTalk thread and be perverted around each other!

[EGlVM]

Excellant notion.

And with all the period talk and guys have it so easy, at the very least, guys have to worry about their prostate. HAHA!!! :rotfl:

[ivybeenz]

Guy talk thread - good idea. Maybe I should start one for them..:D

[redneck once removed]

That was very nice of you. :)

I'm SO :D, my cramps are gone! lol

[redneck once removed]

:bump:

[ivybeenz]

I had cramps yesterday, so I should be getting my period soon

[Silver54321]

This seems like it could be the perfect thread for me pose a question that is puzzling me:

To women who are married: Where do you draw the line, for your own actions, between so-called "harmless flirting" and "going too far" with any man other than your husband?

Hypothetical example: You decide to have a girls' night out with your gal pals. You all go to a club for drinks and dancing. You allow other men to buy you drinks, you might even dance with one or two, and later you give the guy who bought you a drink and danced with you a smooch on the cheek as a "thanks for the fun." Would you consider this going too far?

As a man, I have to say that if I had a significant other, and the above situation were reversed, I would refuse to dance with another woman, I would not accept drinks from another woman, nor buy any for her, and I certainly would not consider giving her anything beyond a handshake and great conversation. If such a woman managed to somehow sneak me a kiss, I would be somewhat upset. But that's just me and how I feel when I am in relationship. I'm old-school. Allow me to add that even if my wife were "okay" with such flirting from another woman, I still would not feel any differently. For me personally, it's not an issue of trust, but rather an issue of respect for yourself, your mate, and your commitment to one another. There are just some "places" I refuse to go, even if the mutual trust is astronomically high.

Thoughts?

[Warthawg1]

Thoughts? I think you just posted in the girl talk thread.

Crap, I just realized that so did I.

Be back soon... I've got to recover my manhood by looking at the hottest girls thread.

[IwannaBlost]

This seems like it could be the perfect thread for me pose a question that is puzzling me:

To women who are married: Where do you draw the line, for your own actions, between so-called "harmless flirting" and "going too far" with any man other than your husband?

Thoughts?

If the guy sends over a drink and is not a friend who knows that I am happily married..I refuse the drink.

If a stranger offers to buy me a drink, I reply that I am married. If he says "that's okay" I say "happily married and you know that this drink will get you no where" If he still wants to buy me a drink, then that's okay.

Dancing, same thing. They must be aware that it is only a dance because I want to dance.

The smooch on the check is for friends only, never strangers with me.

[Alibrastar]

Thoughts? I think you just posted in the girl talk thread.

Crap, I just realized that so did I.

Be back soon... I've got to recover my manhood by looking at the hottest girls thread.


:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

[PandoraX]

Silver, is it ok to weigh in if you're not married? :) I just think that in any serious relationship, it's cheating as soon as it gets to the point where you can't openly share every detail of this with your significant other, and you have to hide parts of it out of guilt. The truth is... this goes for both guys and girls... we all *know* when we've crossed the line. Rationalizing it afterwards is a moot point.

Warty, I think your manhood already took a beating after what you said about the wombat alien probing in the other thread. :D

[MJBinNC]

To women who are married: Where do you draw the line, for your own actions, between so-called "harmless flirting" and "going too far" with any man other than your husband?

Hypothetical example: You decide to have a girls' night out with your gal pals. You all go to a club for drinks and dancing. You allow other men to buy you drinks, you might even dance with one or two, and later you give the guy who bought you a drink and danced with you a smooch on the cheek as a "thanks for the fun." Would you consider this going too far?
First of all - I see you are now in "girl" threads. Interesting. I haven't posted here before - because, honestly - I don't have any desire to write about the normal course of my body. But this makes me want to write.

OK - on A.... first of all - you NEVER know what life brings you. Line? Lines are there - and lines aren't there. I've seen too many bad relationships to put too many constraints on them. Life changes constantly. We need to accept what life brings us.

on B ..... I live in a small town. I've been out "with the girls". I've had drinks bought for me. I've danced with guys in the local bar. Everyone knows everyone here. AND I'm a very warm person. I kiss often - it is actually the custom in my area. It is a considerable faux-pas not to kiss on the cheek or even on the lips for people you know. Just because you do this, doesn't mean that you want to sleep with them.

ETA: I just couldn't leave it. My best friend is a man. We have known each other for 24 years now. We hug, we kiss, we laugh, we hold hands, walk with our arms around each other..... and he is my friend forever. We've gone places together, without spouses, and love each other dearly. From your description, this is "wrong". Well, I would lose the best friend in my life if I took that view. He helped me through the death of my mom - when even my husband didn't know what to do.

Basically - don't judge others. There are a lot of different people and a lot of different ways to live. Be accepting of others. Just because you wouldn't do something, doesn't mean that it is bad. Accept everyone where they are - and when they are.
FWIW.

[redneck once removed]

Preach on sista!

[Alibrastar]

Mmmhhmmm, that's right! :Cowdance:

[azteclady]

ugh

[MJBinNC]

FWIW, ladies..... I wasn't preaching or really saying much other than how I really feel. The post bothered me, and I HAD to respond. It took me over 1/2 hour to write that post - because each time I started, it came out very angry and I would have been called "mean".
For a judgemental post like that to be written, I would at least expect the person to have a personal reference point for their views. (being a woman would be good for starters- considering the thread)
Life is too short to get caught up with imposing our viewpoints blanketly over others.
We would be much happier with our lives, our selves, and others if we just practiced acceptance. Friends are easier to make - and keep - if we accept people for where they are in life.
I have friends that have had affairs. Some are still married to the same person, others aren't. They are still people with whom I remain friends. It is NOT up to me to judge them. Not at all.

Would I accept a drink from someone - already said that I have. Would I dance with someone - yes.
I am married now for 14 years - with my husband GONE for 6 to 9 months at a time.... OFTEN.
Having male friends and enjoying male attention does not a "floozy" make.


eta: and this post will probably be edited a dozen times too.

[Alibrastar]

I agree whole-heartedly...my husband is a recovering alcoholic, he doesn't go out and I go with the guy that works for him. Jim is a wonderful, older man that I consider my Uncle. We dance, buy each other drinks, he kisses my hand and tells me how beautiful I am, watch the bands and then I take him home (he doesn't have a car). We have a great time and trust him completely with my life and my daughter! He comes over for all the holidays (no family) and I just love him! Am I a ho...I think not-I'm just a girl that likes to have a good time without being harrassed, just because you bought me a drink, doesn't mean we'll make babies! And I think that ANY guy that thinks that just because he bought you a drink or because he drove you home is crazy to assume anything will happen except a well deserved thank you that he is entitled to.

[azteclady]

Well, as I am mean and humorless and an all-around b!tch, I'll say that what bothers me most is people who are not in any of the positions in the hypothetical case yet put forth a guideline of behaviour for those positions (translated: not married, yet telling others how married people should behave; not in a relationship, yet telling others how people in a relationship should behave; not parents, yet telling others how children should be educated - the list, as you may well imagine, is endless).

As far as girl talk, guy talk, hottest guys, hottest girls, etc. - this being an open forum, I keep in mind that even if they don't post, many will read what I write. How much I share or not share hinges on that, because while I have come to trust people here, I don't know the over seven thousand lurkers from the man on the moon.

[PandoraX]

MJ: Not really sure where you got the idea that Silver was really being that judgemental in his post, though... I didn't get that impression (nor did I intend that myself in mine)... or that he deserved a vehement or angry response. He was just curious about a woman's opinion, don't see anything wrong with that??

I'll speak for my own opinion, since I can't speak for anyone else. I'll reiterate what I said before... there is a line, but in my eyes, it's not based on some preconceived notion of what the Bible is trying to tell me, what my neighbor thinks, etc. What it comes down to is you and your mate, and if you can come to an agreement, through open discussion, what is acceptable and what is not.

What it boils down to is... if you there's something you have to cover up or hide from your mate, there's a problem there, because relationships are based on trust. Where I draw the line for myself is, if the tables were turned, would I be hurt by him doing the same (for example, kissing an ex in a certain way?). Where that line is for me may be very different for someone else, such as two people in a long distance relationship who have agreed to see other people, and neither has a problem with them doing X Y & Z. It really shouldn't matter what I, silver, your pastor, the nosy lady down the block, or anyone else thinks of your actions, so long as the other person in that relationship is cool with it.

Really, the hallmark of a good relationship is communication. I've done some marriage counseling in the past, and 9/10 times, it comes down to some element of miscommunication which eventually leads to a relationship failure.

[MJBinNC]

MJ: Not really sure where you got the idea that Silver was really being that judgemental in his post, though... I didn't get that impression (nor did I intend that myself in mine)... or that he deserved a vehement or angry response. He was just curious about a woman's opinion, don't see anything wrong with that??
Oh - sorry for the confusion. Having been around a while - just prior knowledge and experience and reading of posts/threads/opinions are what gave me my perspective. I would prefer to not say anything further in regards to that because it doesn't belong here.

and - fwiw - your post was wonderful.

[Silver54321]

MJ: Not really sure where you got the idea that Silver was really being that judgemental in his post, though... I didn't get that impression (nor did I intend that myself in mine)... or that he deserved a vehement or angry response. He was just curious about a woman's opinion, don't see anything wrong with that??

Pandora is correct. I didn't feel I was being judgmental.

What it comes down to is you and your mate, and if you can come to an agreement, through open discussion, what is acceptable and what is not.It really shouldn't matter what I, silver, your pastor, the nosy lady down the block, or anyone else thinks of your actions, so long as the other person in that relationship is cool with it.

I think many are overlooking the point that I am trying to make in that, I would not choose to do certain things, even if my wife or girlfriend were totally "cool with it."

If my significant other says it's completely acceptable, to her, if I dance with another woman, I will still choose not to.
If my s.o. says it is acceptable, to her, if I buy/accept drinks for/from someone else, I will still choose not to.
If my significant other says it's completely acceptable, to her, if I flirt or get flirted with, I will still choose not to.


What it boils down to is... if you there's something you have to cover up or hide from your mate, there's a problem there, because relationships are based on trust.

I completely agree with this. I would never attempt to cover up or hide anything from my s.o. FWIW, I am often TOO honest for my own good.

[PandoraX]

No problem, MJ. :) I think, again... it was an issue of miscommunication, common online--we are all biased to interpret internet posts through the lens of our own past experiences, since we don't have cues like facial expressions, tone of voice, etc. It was not my intention to impose moral judgements on where you set that line, but it is my firm belief that there is a line, and everyone knows where it lies for their particular relationship; but it's different for every case, and none of my business or anyone else's what you and your husband decide is right for you guys.

[MJBinNC]

PandoraX - please check your inbox. :)
Thanks.

and once again - my post had really nothing to do with yours, which was based on many levels of experience.

[redneck once removed]

I'm with MJ & librastar on this one. I dont think MJ was angry, just has her own very strong opinions. Silver, if that's your position, I think that's wonderful if it works for you. I think their only point is the part that I completely agree with: Everyone is different. Accepting a drink, dance, or giving someone a kiss on the cheek doesn't make you a slut or hang a "Please try to get in my pants" sign around your neck/above your head. If you (not you personally, the universal 'you') can't figure that out, you're probably not someone I would drink/dance/be comfotable touching anyway, Us women can read vibes. (all you men love to say we're emotional :D) We can usually tell your intentions quickly.

Now, I'm not trying to sound b!tchy either. I don't think anyone is, I just think we all feel the way we feel. :)

MJB, when I said "preach on sista", I said it cause I agreed w/you. :)

[Alibrastar]

MJ...can I just say again, that I just love your avatar! I love Richard Gere!

Pand: You're so sweet and say such nice things and are very helpful.

Silver: Has something bad happened where you asked this question? Just wonderin'.

Okay, I'll shut up now...well, for the moment :D

[Silver54321]

Silver: Has something bad happened where you asked this question? Just wonderin'.

No, nothing at all. I am just a ponderer.

[Momofsamty]

Okay let me preface this by saying it is directed at NO ONE IN PARTICULAR it is just my own opinion that I am forcing on NO ONE...

That being said, I believe it is okay for Silver to ask the question if he so desires. It is also his God Given Right to give his personal opinion if he so desires. It is called Freedom of Speech. I did not take it judgemental or offensive. (I have also been around a long time and know the background)

I believe that a person should do what THEY feel is right for THEIR situation. I for example have a very trusting, open relationship with my husband. He is not the jealous type, and has no problem with my friendships with other men (a fair amount of my friends are men). Nor do I with his friendships with other women (he has many) we know we love each other, we know each other's personality. We are each others Best Friend. He knows I am a flirt, he knew that before he married me. In turn, him being a music man, and being in a band and going to gigs, I knew that I would have to accept the women it would attract. My feeling is that I am going to do what I want and I don't give a rats ass what others think, the only person that matters to me is my husband and what he is comfortable with...

[Alibrastar]

I have a question...what do you do when a guy at work constantly looks at you or tries to walk by as you do? This one guy at my job is driving me batty!!! He always "waits" for me to go to the lav or to lunch or cig break to jump out of his cube to watch me walk by. It's very obvious, so badly that he'll go towards his cube and if he sees me coming-he'll turn around! He has only said hello and the same for me...but I DO NOT want to talk, because I'm afraid he'd never shut up! He's not very good looking at all-like if he was Josh Holloway it'd make a difference (well maybe ;) ) but just the same, I AM married and am NOT looking for love. My friend, Banita, tells me about him when I didn't notice-it's just crazy! My husband said to pick my nose as I go by, but I couldn't do something like that...I just started this job and do not want word going around that I was the girl that picked her nose. Any ideas-suggestions?

[Momofsamty]

I have a question...what do you do when a guy at work constantly looks at you or tries to walk by as you do? This one guy at my job is driving me batty!!! He always "waits" for me to go to the lav or to lunch or cig break to jump out of his cube to watch me walk by. It's very obvious, so badly that he'll go towards his cube and if he sees me coming-he'll turn around! He has only said hello and the same for me...but I DO NOT want to talk, because I'm afraid he'd never shut up! He's not very good looking at all-like if he was Josh Holloway it'd make a difference (well maybe ;) ) but just the same, I AM married and am NOT looking for love. My friend, Banita, tells me about him when I didn't notice-it's just crazy! My husband said to pick my nose as I go by, but I couldn't do something like that...I just started this job and do not want word going around that I was the girl that picked her nose. Any ideas-suggestions?

Forget that he even exists, pay him no attention. What he is doing IS rude, but because he has never made any sexual advances, it would not be considered harassment. As it is a new job, you don't want to start making waves with little ammo. Don't give him the benefit of even a hello, just look through him like he doesn't exist. Once you have been there a while and get a feel for the place, if he still is doing it, pointedly ask him why he does it, and tell him you don't like it.

[Alibrastar]

Oh, thank you kindly Momo...I loved your answer!!!! I have ignored him, but he is relentless. And I have thought about asking him-how funny you say that!!!!! I'm just scarred is all. He did say hello one day and all I did was stare him plain in the face and kept walking. He hasn't spoke to me recently but watches constantly! Thanks again Momo!!!! :Cowdance:

[Momofsamty]

Oh, thank you kindly Momo...I loved your answer!!!! I have ignored him, but he is relentless. And I have thought about asking him-how funny you say that!!!!! I'm just scarred is all. He did say hello one day and all I did was stare him plain in the face and kept walking. He hasn't spoke to me recently but watches constantly! Thanks again Momo!!!! :Cowdance:

No problem, I know he is an annoyance, look at it in a positive light, in that you obviously are very attractive, since he can't keep his eyes off you, and judging by your description, revel in the idea that he has a snowballs chance in hell of ever fulfilling the fantasies that are going through his mind as he stares at you. LOL and then picture him naked!!! :D 10 to one you burst out laughing in his face.

[merry slug]

There are a lot of different people and a lot of different ways to live. Be accepting of others. Just because you wouldn't do something, doesn't mean that it is bad. Accept everyone where they are - and when they are.
FWIW.

I think many are overlooking the point that I am trying to make in that, I would not choose to do certain things, even if my wife or girlfriend were totally "cool with it."
 If my significant other says it's completely acceptable, to her, if I dance with another woman, I will still choose not to.
 If my s.o. says it is acceptable, to her, if I buy/accept drinks for/from someone else, I will still choose not to.
 If my significant other says it's completely acceptable, to her, if I flirt or get flirted with, I will still choose not to.


You just agreed with MJ, and helped make her point.

[MJBinNC]

You just agreed with MJ, and helped make her point.

merry - have I told you lately that I love you? ;)

[merry slug]

:awwhug:

[Silver54321]

You just agreed with MJ, and helped make her point.

I don't understand how you've come to this conclusion.

[Jinjur]

oh my goodness a boy!!! everybody grab a pillow!!

[Alibrastar]

No problem, I know he is an annoyance, look at it in a positive light, in that you obviously are very attractive, since he can't keep his eyes off you, and judging by your description, revel in the idea that he has a snowballs chance in hell of ever fulfilling the fantasies that are going through his mind as he stares at you. LOL and then picture him naked!!! :D 10 to one you burst out laughing in his face.


NOOOO!!!! :no-no: I do not want to picture him naked :vomit: ...he's really geeky looking :glasses: (no offense to anyone with thick glasses-just not my thing) but he is buggin'! My husband wears glasses, but this guy's are THICK! :eye-poppi Momo, you are so funny-:Hugglepounce: :flowers: Thanks for the help...PS have you seen the new clip for the new Depp pic coming? He's lookin good and sounds a little like Jack Sparrow in it. :itmdrool:

[merry slug]

I don't understand how you've come to this conclusion.

Then nothing I say will matter.

[redneck once removed]

girly:bump:

[island_maverick]

:bump:


(:whistling )

mav

[PandoraX]

Another voyeur! Burn him at the stake, ladies!!!

(or maybe it's your sig line ladies who are doing the talking, mav? :D)

[island_maverick]

...ehem....er.....oh yeah....er....that's right. It was them that did it. :shhh:

[merry slug]

Choice IS a glorious thing ;)

[MJBinNC]

Choice IS a glorious thing ;)
In many things dear!

[redneck once removed]

2nd girly :bump:

Pandora, I just saw your new sig. pic. :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

[Jinjur]

How have you been ROR?

[redneck once removed]

I'm doin' alright :D

Yourself?

[lost_in_translation]

Hi!!
wave

[PandoraX]

Pandora, I just saw your new sig. pic. :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Hehe, glad you approve. New addition is Mr. Clean = Locke! (courtesy of Son of Locke)

[redneck once removed]

Hi!!
wave

Hiya! :wave2:

:welcome:

[redneck once removed]

I was wondering why the last post in here was from a person whose name had 'Son Of' in it. lol

[PandoraX]

I was wondering why the last post in here was from a person whose name had 'Son Of' in it. lol

Well... he is a Son of a.... something ;) J/K!!!

[Shelly]

hey girlies! :) I haven't been here in a while. How are you all doing?

[Alibrastar]

Hi Ladies!!!!!!!

Been a while for me as well-hope ya'll are having wonderful periods, no pimples and lots of chocolate at your fingertips!

I'm in a goofy mood today that was set off by the Top 5 thread...:D

[OMG its LFG]

ive been gone for awhile, just stopped in today to say HI! how are all of you doing?

[EGlVM]

Hi Ladies!!!!!!!

Been a while for me as well-hope ya'll are having wonderful periods, no pimples and lots of chocolate at your fingertips!

I'm in a goofy mood today that was set off by the Top 5 thread...:D
Just finished a period, have plenty of chocolate at my fingertips, thank you, but I have some acne...shit. I ordered proactiv but the bast...*clears throat* buttheads never sent it. ARGH!

[redneck once removed]

another girly :bump:

[Jinjur]

Ahhhh Estrogen.......

[Alibrastar]

Just finished a period, have plenty of chocolate at my fingertips, thank you, but I have some acne...shit. I ordered proactiv but the bast...*clears throat* buttheads never sent it. ARGH!

Hey, I'm curious, when you get your shipment and use it for awhile, please come back and tell me how well it works or doesn't-I'm debating about getting it for my daughter. I hear it's very expensive and if you don't keep using it, your pimples come back-please let me know, seriously.
Thanks!

[Jinjur]

Hey yeah so I also use proactive it costs about 50 for the set. It is a routine morning and night that must be followed fairly strictly. You can also buy it at kiosks in most malls. Although I don't know how big the city is that you li ve in so I shouldn't assume. You can also order it online I would imagine. It works wonders though. Way better than anything I ever used and I am VERY fair. Hope that helps. :)

[Alibrastar]

Hey yeah so I also use proactive it costs about 50 for the set. It is a routine morning and night that must be followed fairly strictly. You can also buy it at kiosks in most malls. Although I don't know how big the city is that you li ve in so I shouldn't assume. You can also order it online I would imagine. It works wonders though. Way better than anything I ever used and I am VERY fair. Hope that helps. :)

I live near Dallas, so yeah, I see it in the malls, but is it true that you must continue using or else the acne will come back worse? $50!!!!!!!!!!!! GAD!!!!!!! How long does that last for you-a month? Is it really better then the stuff at the store...even like Neutragena? (sp)

[Jinjur]

It is far better than acutane, ratinae, any perscriptiuon or otc. Yes you do need to continue use...No it will nt come back worse though. It is better to use it and forget sometimes than not use it at all. It last more than a month to be sure at least two or three

[Alibrastar]

Well, thank ya Ma'am...my daughter has mentioned this product before. Hopefully I'll get a bonus check and will be able to buy her some to try. Poor thing has acne bad on her forehead & chin. I will definately look into this for her-I really appreciate your input. What a gal! Thanks! Have one on me! :drinky:

[Jinjur]

Cheers! :) not a problem we Irish gilrs know a thing or to about the issue...

[Alibrastar]

Cheers! :) not a problem we Irish gilrs know a thing or to about the issue...


Funny, my daughter is Irish...I'm only Irish by injection. :D

[EGlVM]

^ Hahahaha! :rotfl:

Tell your daughter to hang in there. I've got a face that is blackhead central. So, I have to re-order and hopefully it will come through this time! :headache:

And yeah, it's about $39.95 if you order the 3 main products and they're suppossed to last you about 2, 2 and a half months.

[Jinjur]

yeah I would actually advise against the mask...but then again it contains sulfer...and I am allegric to sulfer:)

[EGlVM]

Wow, how do you find out if you're alergic to sulfur?

[Alibrastar]

Wow, thanks for the info ya'll...I didn't know they had a mask-huh? The price is kinda high to pay at one time, but I guess if it lasts that long-it evens out. Thanks!

[Alibrastar]

Wow, how do you find out if you're alergic to sulfur?

She probably had an allergic reaction, poor thing...either that or she had been tested previously for allegies and they found sulfer as one. I have never been "tested" but I know I'm not allergic to anything. I have never had a bad rash or break out from anything/product that I ever used, but some people are very sensitive. My daughter is-she has to use Dove.

[EGlVM]

^ That sucks.

As far as I know, I'm only allergic to nickel.

And if I'm around certain cats I feel like I'm gonna sneeze.

[Jinjur]

I'm allergic to sulfer.

[Jinjur]

ohh yay it's almost 9 I get to go curl up on the couch with my best girlfriend and watch Lost now!!! i am excited! Bye ladies, be back in an hour or so.:)

[redneck once removed]

It's been almost a week since someone was in here?!?

much needed Girly-:bump:

[redneck once removed]

Am I the only woman on Earth that's happy I got my period?

[Alibrastar]

Am I the only woman on Earth that's happy I got my period?

Are you happy because it's been missing and finally showed up or are you truly happy that you got your period?

[A Lost Cause]

Okay I just found this thread which is weird but I gotta tell someone! I just got home from the doctor about an hour ago and... I'm pregnant!!!
:yayconfet

[redneck once removed]

Are you happy because it's been missing and finally showed up or are you truly happy that you got your period?


L:DL,
I'm happy every time it shows up because it means 'no babies' this month ;)

which makes tpostam really odd. :)

[Alibrastar]

"Redneck's not pregnant...everybody drink!" <----from Sex and the City, Samantha says it.

:Cheers:

[LQ Jones]

http://imagecache2.allposters.com/images/PS/87660.jpg

[redneck once removed]

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